My husband and I have been thinking about having a tinder threesome together. It took us several weeks to make the decision, because we are supposed to be committed in a monogamous relationship. It would be quite a bold move to have a threesome together. We are told that having couples dating can change a lot of things. It can change the dynamic of a relationship and the influence can be both positive and negative. We want to make sure no thing can hurt our relationship, so we are pretty cautious about it.
Threesome has always been the top one sexual fantasy for my husband. He talked to me about it before we married. I didn’t claim my standpoint to it and he never asked, until recently. Our sexual life is pretty dull and plain. Neither of us feel passion about it, so my husband brought up that proposal. I think it would be much more fun too, compared to our regular monogamous sexual routine. So we established an agreement. This would be just a one-time thing. It is not going to be a norm. We are not going to live a swinger lifestyle. Just one time.
When we are deciding who to have threesome with, we have different opinions. I want to invite someone we knew, because I think it would be safer and more comfortable. However, my husband would like to keep it private between us, so he suggests to find a stranger from a tinder for threesome app. We argue about it for days until we make another choice. We are going to hire a professional to please us---an escort.
The reasons are as follow: First, we don’t need to worry about the feelings of the third if she was paid for doing this. Second, it is private enough. No one would find out we have a threesome. Third, it would be less awkward when you know you won’t be seeing each other in the future. Forth, since it is our first threesome, we think it would be better if we are with someone more experienced. We don’t want our first threesome to be a failure or a disaster.
So that is established. We go to a tinder for threesome dating apps and find a woman who claims to be “professional with couples”. We invite her to come over to our place. She is pretty straight-forward and very good-looking. After having some food, she starts to flirt with us. We move from couch to bed. She is quite professional and she knows how to please me and my husband without letting me jealous. However, there is one thing I feel weird about. She is too purposeful like she knows exactly what she is going to do. Sometimes I feel she is like a machine, an emotionless machine. It is a great threesome, but I would never do it again.